my rule of never sizing off the entry, only off the invalidation
ok so this is the one thing that actually dragged me out of the blow-up-every-3-months loop and i wanna hear if anyone does it differently.
for years i sized like a degen: "i want 5x on this" and then i'd pick a stop wherever it felt vaguely safe. which is backwards. the leverage number was the input and the risk was whatever fell out the other end. some trades i was risking 0.4% of the book, some i was risking 6% and had no idea until it was already red.
now i do it the other way. before anything i mark the level that makes the idea wrong. not "where it hurts" — where the reason i entered stops existing. then i decide the flat dollar amount i'm ok setting on fire, which for me is a fixed % of the account and it does not move because i'm feeling confident. size = risk / distance to invalidation. leverage is just whatever number the exchange shows me after that, it's an output, i genuinely don't look at it anymore except to check i'm not near liq before the stop.
side effect i didn't expect: it killed a whole category of bad trades. if invalidation is really far away, the position comes out tiny, and if the position is tiny enough that a win wouldn't matter, i just... don't take it. the math tells me the setup is bad before my ego does.
stuff i'm still bad at:
- funding. i hold perps for days sometimes and i still treat funding as a rounding error when on longer holds it clearly isn't. do you bake carry into the risk number or keep it separate?
- scaling in. every time i add to a winner i move my average and my original invalidation stops being the real invalidation, and then i'm improvising. no clean system for this yet.
- weekends. thin books, my stop distance assumptions are basically fiction, so lately i just carry less into them.
anyway curious how others handle sizing. anyone size off ATR instead of a structural level? i tried it and it felt too mechanical for crypto but maybe i did it wrong.